From Life Coaching to Life-as-Art-Coaching
In most general terms, the purpose of life coaching is to make it possible for people to succeed in getting a better life. Individual life coaches have different ways and strategies to help their clients reach goals that will change an unfulfilling life into an exciting, rich and rewarding one.
Traditionally coaching designates relationships between trainers and athletes. Besides training for specific skills, coaches also help their players discover and initiate ever-improving strategies. Nowadays, the paradigm of coaching has expanded far beyond sports to include areas like business, career, financial, personal relationships and any other element that is part of life.
The underlying aim of life coaching is for clients to achieve a life that is worth- while in all of its components. So we are talking about "the good life." How do we determine what this is? A simple answer might be that it is the life of someone who has "everything" and is content with what he or she has. Take it one step further, and ask how do you know if you have everything? It's easy to find out:
Mr. and Ms. X are happy because they each have a good marriage or partnership, good health, enough money to satisfy needs and wants, and enough time to enjoy it all. What happens when any one of these elements is lost or at least temporarily missing? If one piece of a jigsaw puzzle can't be found the picture is no longer whole. If several pieces have disappeared, then the joy of working the puzzle turns into little more than frustration. Stated simply, you only know the real value of what you have when it is gone.
Assuming major basic needs have been met, life may be okay, but somehow you cannot get away from the feeling it is not all that it could be. Why are some things in your life exciting and fulfilling while the rest are boring and/or frustrating? The answer is that the better life is spirited, lively, and above all creative. It does not matter if you are working in a profession, practicing a trade, or making your way as an artist; if you are creatively engaged, you will not feel exhausted at the end of the day. The more room there is for creativity in your skills and talents, the more fun it is to do your work, and with work turning into play, your morale stays high-- your workday becomes colorful and rewarding.
Those who have found a fitting career direction are happy and fulfilled because it is easy for them to be who they are in their true nature. They become better and better at whatever they are doing because their work has become play and play is the pathway to creativity.
Does that mean that those who have a satisfying career are leading a life that is as good as it gets? Unfortunately this is most often not the case because the creativity which comes into play in one's vocation is all-too-often barely present in other parts of one's life. A genius in science, an outstandingly successful entrepreneur, a doctor renowned in his or her specialty may have nothing but trouble with relationships with friends, family or partners. Why is the creativity so manifest in one's work simply not present in others parts of one's life? Why? Because the person's mindset says "the area of discovery exploration and creativity is in my work and nowhere else. The rest of my life is simply something to 'take care of, at best a nuisance, at worst a pain.' "
Having only one part of one's existence alive and exciting while the rest is a wasteland is a wide-spread dilemma. Life should not be part paradise, part desert. Yes, the wasteland can be ignored. But wouldn't it be better if it were turned into a garden, a park or a healthy nature preserve? The remedy I am offering is to find ways in which life in all its beauty can be experienced as art. I will support you to find ways to let your creative energies permeate any or all parts your existence. To help bring this reality into being, I offer my services as your Life-as-Art-Coach.
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Posted by Howard at 1:38 PM
Sunday, January 27, 2013
I know that the chance that the President will actually get to read this letter is less than minimal, but fractional odds are better than none at all.
Dear Mr. President,
I’m asking you as the head of the executive branch of the federal government to address a source of pervasive anxiety and despair among the people of our country. As a citizen, I feel obligated to alert you to the fact that we who follow the actions of our government cannot avoid recognizing that the constitutional principle of equal justice for all has vanished.
Frontline recently revealed wrongdoings by decision-makers in financial institutions that caused our recent economic crisis. But your administration's Department of Justice has chosen to ignore fraudulent behavior on the part of the leaders of the financial world. It appears that a line has been drawn so that persons whose total worth is in the millions or more are exempt from having to respect and obey laws that apply to every citizen. How can our government be a government of the people, by the people and for the people if laws that exist prohibiting financial deceit no longer apply once a certain level of income and assets has been reached?
I know that as an individual it is natural for you to consider human factors in your actions. As difficult as it may appear to you personally to call to task and ultimately bring to justice persons that you may have come to know in the course of your political career, I am asking you to rise above the ties of friendships and allegiances and to make sure that the Justice Department of your administration does not exempt persons above a certain level of income and assets from being called to account.
Posted by Howard at 5:49 PM
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Fot those of you who didn't catch this very short letter to Obama on Facebook, here it is again:
Posted by Howard at 9:00 PM
Monday, November 5, 2012
For background on Semmelweis: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignaz_Semmelweis
Posted by Howard at 12:03 PM
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
On February 12, 2009 Colgan Air Flight 3407 crashed into a house in suburban Buffalo, N.Y., killing 50 people. Eleven minutes after take-off from Newark the crew noticed ice buildup on the plane's wings and windscreen and turned on the de-icing system. The flight continued on autopilot until the final approach when the aircraft's "stick shaker" sounded a strong warning that the aircraft's speed had deteriorated to a dangerously slow rate. Instead of following standard procedure of adding full throttle and lowering the plane's nose, the captain added only 75% power and raised it. This caused the aircraft to pitch up 31 degrees before diving at 45 degrees into a home near Buffalo.
The pilot meant well. He did not want the plane to go down, so he turned its nose upward thinking he would prevent a crash. He was wrong -- tragically wrong. He needed to burn more fuel, expend more energy. Had he gone full throttle and pointed the plane downward, he could have gained the necessary speed to recover from his dangerous stall.
Why did the pilot fail to realize that by raising the front of the plane he would further decrease its perilously low speed? The answer is simple. He lacked competency. Regional airlines practice austerity. To cut costs, the airlines' owners hired cheaper but less knowledgeable pilots. Pilots who lack training and experience cannot fly safely.
To perform any given task, a plane needs to consume energy. Just as a commercial aircraft is a system that cannot function without consuming fuel, a nation's economy cannot remain in good health without money. A plane will no more take off from a runway with an empty gas tank than an economy will pull out of stagnation without money. As Konrad Lorenz stated, "Money is the symbol for energy." People need to get paid to make a living, and if they get paid well, they will live better. Once their standard of living increases, other members of society benefit because with a higher standard of living everyone can afford to pay for services, which in turn gives an additional boost to the economy.
So what about austerity? As with the example of the regional airline's plane that crashed because the owners did not cover the cost for proper training and maintenance, austerity is a set-up for performance failure. Austerity brings with it lack and suffering, and stifles creativity. When people are perpetually worried about how to pay their bills, they lose confidence. Money is necessary for good morale, and good morale is a pre-requisite for good work, good health, rejuvenating play and the kind of expansiveness that makes a society prosper.
Who can supply the money? Where would it come from? Only from tax revenue from sources that are not already oppressed by austerity measures. Look for money among the likes of those who put up millions and millions to bid up art works for little other purpose than to increase their own net worth.
Posted by Howard at 1:59 PM
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Q. What is your favorite joke?
A. In New York, a hungry guy stops at a hot-dog vendor's stand. The vendor asks him, "What will you have?" The guy answers, "A dog with everything on it." The vendor puts mustard, relish, ketchup etc. on the dog and hands it back to the guy. The guy hands the vendor a twenty-dollar bill and gets ready for the next customer. Before even taking a bite, the man asks the vendor, "Where is my change?" The vendor replies, "Change comes from within…"
Q. Are you sure this is joke? I can't see myself breaking out laughing.
A. Not all jokes will make you laugh out loud. Some will only want to make you scratch your head.
Q. So you are insisting this anecdote really is a joke? Or are we dealing with nothing more than a bit of nonsense?
A. Maybe. But not everything that appears to be nonsense is nonsense. When I first heard this joke, I certainly didn't laugh out loud, but something registered in my feelings. The vendor's reply seems crazy, but you cannot help having that second thought that underneath it all it is not that crazy, that at some level it does make sense.
Q. So what kind of sense does it make?
A. I don't want to answer this one. Explaining a joke kills it. You get more out of this one if you let yourself have that second, third, fourth, fifth and so on thought and see where it takes you.
Posted by Howard at 4:50 PM